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Be good- Be performer





One day my son suddenly started behaving very good with me, It took some time to understand. Then understood his weekly test marks are low for which he is finding the way to be good to compensate the non performance.

First I was impressed with his goodness. But immediately realized that I am encouraging the non performance can be manipulated with temporary good behaving.  

 You might be a wonderful person, You could be a very honest person, very kind at heart, very helpful and obedient to your boss, parents and teachers. Who cares?  Your goodness cannot substitute to your bad performance. Even if you are good, you will be disrespected if you don’t show good results. You need to be good and also you need to be a performer.

If you are an exceptional performer that does not mean that you would have the license to be a bad person. Even if you are a top performer in the organization, if you have all the bad qualities, then will the world look up to you. No Way!!. The world will not care for such people. 

Just because you are extra ordinary in work, intelligent and produce better result, you can not be arrogant or can be indiscipline. 

Just because today worked extra time at work place ,next day  walks in two hours late. This doesn’t count for the credibility. 

I say always you have compensated your extra  performance with  indiscipline  in next day. This is not appreciated or appraised. 

The ideal person is a person who has the combination of a Performer and a Good person. “You need to be good and also produce results”

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