Today's maturity is different form yesterday's

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The Maturity at which we deal today is different from the maturity with which we dealt same on yesterday.

I was discussing with a good friend of mine for his decision of postponing his marriage even after late 30’s.  He questioned me, what makes difference if it is too late marriage?

Suddenly did not have answer to justify. But I believe, the intimacy at innocence age has different experience and feeling than the intimacy after over maturity.

Every day pass by, we add an experience. Every time we meet a person we add an experience and get matured.

It is foolish to say, I am meeting today with the same maturity had yesterday. Every experience showered gives a maturity in your life. I always say in my beginning of the speech, the person walked inside this room is not the same person when you go back. It adds a new experience in his life and adds a new wisdom on to the person. And it is true the person  gets next level of maturity when he goes back.

My spiritual belief, that the energy which present is formless and comes in different form and touches my life. It can be friend, strange person, a teacher, student, a kid, wife, son anybody. Each touch gives a different experience and lifts to the next level of maturity.

The definition of happiness has kept varying.   Warrior was an icon in my early life and becoming a winner was happiness. Then the icon was the knowledge & wisdom. Started gaining wisdom to feel happy. Then it is changed to new icon of money, becoming rich was a happiness.  But now days I feel service is an icon to me and my happiness is in serving a people in this world. I don’t know after some maturity, the definition of the happiness probably change based on the maturity which I am going to gain.
The Maturity at which you deal today is different from the maturity with which you dealt same on yesterday

 Ramesh Shivanna

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