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We have been taught since child hood , the purpose of life is to get something   from outside the world. The education teaches how to get rank, how to get medal, how to get the shield. Every game focus on  getting   the prize. All the education counseling is to study the best earning field like doctor, Engineer , lawyers etc.,   We have been molded to earn or get something from this world. And we teach same thing to our children.  “ World doesn’t remember what you have, But world remembers   only what you gave ”. We remember Mahathma Gandhi, Mother Theresa, Thomas alva edison , Einstein and so on for not what they had. But what they gave to this world.     World remember both positive or negative. Osama bin laden also remembered but for the trouble he gave to this world. So question is what you give to the world is  more important. Sachin Tendulkar has been remembered for the success he gave to the country, Jesus has been remembered for the love he gave to the world. Moth

We always feel challenge to wake up our children in the morning. I am trying to set a discipline to wake up my son at 5.30AM. He spends more than 20 minutes to get up from bed after he wakes up. But I observed one day, he had to go for a trip with his friends from school. He had to leave home by 5.00 AM. Surprisingly he got up twice in the mid night and finally   4.00AM before the alarm rings. One thing we can make out here, “ between less pleasure and more pleasure we always chose more pleasure ”. Between daily getting up and sleeping for while, sleeping is more pleasure, so, he prefers to sleep. On the day of school trip, the more pleasure to him  is going with his friends. Now the realization is how we can create more pleasure to him instead struggle to wake him up.   Sleeping is everybody likes it, but solution to that is not reduce sleep, instead start liking something more than the sleep. The easiest way to take a person out of hell is not to speak against hell, sel