The yardstick we use for the world is the yardstick we use for ourselves
We always judge the people as the way we are. Our judgment is reflection of our mind. I have a friend who made a lot of money. He sees the world as a series of value propositions. Everything from holiday vacation to what undergarment to choose at a shop. If someone is rude to him it is because they are jealous or felt threatened by his power or success. If someone is kind to him it is because they admired his power and success, and in some cases, may be trying to manipulate him to get more access to it. He measures himself through his financial success. And naturally he measures the world and the people around him through financial success. A woman who is beautiful, looks at the world in terms of attraction and attention. Everything from job interviews to getting discounts at shops to dealing with any relationships. If someone is rude to her it is because they are intimidated by her beauty or their own lack of beauty. If someone is kind to her it is because they admire her