You are responsible for your relationship

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“God is experienced in silence”
“Silence is experienced only in peace’
“Peace is experienced only when you have  love and happiness around”
Love and happiness experienced, only when you are source of love and happiness.

The quality of the painting is the painter’s responsibility; The quality of a statue is sculpture’s responsibility. The quality of your life is your responsibility. If you have desire to experience the God, you should be source of love and happiness. With your love and happiness,  with the people around you, you can experience back the love and happiness. 

You need to show the love to the people since you need it. It is not question of whose mistake in the relationship, but it is the question of your relationship with others. For the sake of having a peace in your life you have to express love and happiness irrespective others. It is ultimately it is your life. Since you want to experience the peace, silence and God…

This gives whole meaning of relationship. The relationships in life are most important to live. We need others, we need people, and we need the world. None of us are alone; we cannot make it alone the life. 

We cannot live if we are placed in island with all the comforts. That is the reason the serious punishment is putting him in the jail. He is disconnected from all the relationships, people and the world inside jail. 

Don’t argue at the cost of the relationship. Your quality of life depends on your relationships. You are responsible for your relationship.

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