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“Let problem comes anywhere and solution comes from me” is a primary requirement of the leadership. Often I see people do not like to be disturbed from the team members for any problems arise at the same time demanding better position in organization and more remuneration than what they deserve. It looks contradictory statements. If they complain so much on the problems arise around them and at the same time cannot claim to be the best leader. If all the solutions are available in your team by themselves. Then what is the use of your leader over there.   Why do you require to be sitting there? If you want to sit as leader you should be prepared to face all the challenges.   Accept all the people come to you with challenges and let the solution generates from you. If somebody walks in to the cabin he should leave the cabin with the solution or with the confidence of solution will be getting from you. But we expect shouldn’t be disturbed by ...

Trust plays a key role in any sort of relationship. The Trust decides the depth of relationship. Trust is based on two main things Character and Competence . The character is evaluated by Intent and Integrity .  The intent   speaks about Caring , transparency and openness.  Integrity speaks about Honesty , fairness and authenticity The competence is evaluated by capability and Results .  The capability speaks about skill, knowledge and experience. The Results speaks about reputation, credibility and performance. Trust is like a bank account, how you deposit so much you can expect from other relationship. To build the trust we got to work on all the above ingredients and ensure all are balanced always. Only character or the competence can not build the deep relationships. Both needs to be developed which in turn boost the trust and relationship

Sometime the struggles’ are exactly what we need in our life. If I look at my past , today what I am is because of the struggle which I went through. It created a confidence in me to think big in   my life.   The difficulties in my life helped to discover myself. I always admire the story of butterfly and cocoon, the boy helped the cocoon to come out but it dies… “ The egg is broken from inside life starts, if it is broken from outside life ends.. If God allowed me to go through my life without any obstacles, it would cripple me. I would not be as strong as what I could have been. And I could never fly. In fact, it is the struggle that causes to develop the ability to fly. The Swami vivekanda words always inspire me after this realization.   “When I asked God for strength, he gave me difficult situation to face.” “When I asked God for the wealth, he showed me how to work hard” “When I asked God for happiness, he s...

“The body is our temple, keep it pure and clean for soul to reside” God created man looking at his own image". They are a gift from Heavenly God to allow us to experience mortality and continue to become more like him. This knowledge influences the way we treat our bodies and how we feel about Heavenly God and ourselves. When we treat our bodies as temples of God, we obtain physical, emotional and spiritual blessings. The spirit is residing in the body, The spirit is also   called as soul. Now the soul has to live in this body,   it is our responsibility to take care of the body. The vehicle has to be maintained well to travel long. Similar way the body is the vehicles which carry the soul. It needs the preventive maintenance. Proper exercise, right vitamins, nutrition’s and so on. Health is the relationship between you and your body..   “Your body is precious. It is our vehicle for awakening. Treat it with care.” ~Buddha “Love your b...

"The best lessons in life are not learned from the books rather learned from studying fellow human being around us" . We have learnt the discipline by watching the watch man who dresses and stands in the early morning even if it is raining or cold weather. Many times we have learned punctuality from the office boy who reaches the office every day before everybody comes and clean the office. Honesty and loyalty learned from the fellow works below us. We get inspired by seeing the results achieved by our junior executives. The person next to me on the thread mill motivates to run for five more minutes. All of us are livelier at home because of our kids and children. I am consciously practicing the integrity in my life just because of my son. I have learned silence and calmness from the talkative and person always argue for anything. I have learned patience from the impatience person around me. The best lessons are learned from the people...

An objective of religion is to bring unity. But today the religion are source of disunity . The most of the violence, war in the world is because of the religion. The word religion is derived from two latin words “re” and “ligare” which means Re-connect or Re-born. In spiritual sense, life has borne from formless to form and again going back to the formless is reborn. The system helps to go back to the formless is religion. It can be any system. the true purpose of religion is not to force people to idolize a person, or to worship a person or thing or place, but to help people understand that the Divinity   “ We get attached to that which you serve ” We attached to the religion more than the achieving the purpose of religion. The result is Religian is lead to burden. Instead of bridge to God, often a barrier to God. Instead of freeing people from their burden, religion itself is burden. Instead knowing God , we have obsessed with know about God. When I do good, I fe...