ARIVU

Trust plays a key role in any sort of relationship. The Trust decides the depth of relationship. Trust is based on two main things Character and Competence . The character is evaluated by Intent and Integrity .  The intent   speaks about Caring , transparency and openness.  Integrity speaks about Honesty , fairness and authenticity The competence is evaluated by capability and Results .  The capability speaks about skill, knowledge and experience. The Results speaks about reputation, credibility and performance. Trust is like a bank account, how you deposit so much you can expect from other relationship. To build the trust we got to work on all the above ingredients and ensure all are balanced always. Only character or the competence can not build the deep relationships. Both needs to be developed which in turn boost the trust and relationship

Sometime the struggles’ are exactly what we need in our life. If I look at my past , today what I am is because of the struggle which I went through. It created a confidence in me to think big in   my life.   The difficulties in my life helped to discover myself. I always admire the story of butterfly and cocoon, the boy helped the cocoon to come out but it dies… “ The egg is broken from inside life starts, if it is broken from outside life ends.. If God allowed me to go through my life without any obstacles, it would cripple me. I would not be as strong as what I could have been. And I could never fly. In fact, it is the struggle that causes to develop the ability to fly. The Swami vivekanda words always inspire me after this realization.   “When I asked God for strength, he gave me difficult situation to face.” “When I asked God for the wealth, he showed me how to work hard” “When I asked God for happiness, he s...