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Grow out of struggle



Sometime the struggles’ are exactly what we need in our life. If I look at my past , today what I am is because of the struggle which I went through. It created a confidence in me to think big in  my life.  The difficulties in my life helped to discover myself.

I always admire the story of butterfly and cocoon, the boy helped the cocoon to come out but it dies… “ The egg is broken from inside life starts, if it is broken from outside life ends..
If God allowed me to go through my life without any obstacles, it would cripple me. I would not be as strong as what I could have been. And I could never fly.

In fact, it is the struggle that causes to develop the ability to fly.

The Swami vivekanda words always inspire me after this realization.
 “When I asked God for strength, he gave me difficult situation to face.”
“When I asked God for the wealth, he showed me how to work hard”
“When I asked God for happiness, he showed me some unhappy people”
All these examples speak about becoming strong within. Do not look for the support outside; always think how to build self.

A man in the circus had 10 lions; everyday he was feeding prepared meat. After some time the circus was not doing  and he was unable to feed, so he dropped them in to the forest. After few days he came to know only three is alive and rest was eaten by forest dogs. Even Lions have lost the strength to find its own meet.

Life without struggle will be like circus lions, It kills the strength with in us. Accept the difficulties, grow out of struggle discover your strength.

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