Accept the way it is...

We use people to get appreciation and acknowledgement to feel good, Feeling good in me is dependent on how other person acknowledge and appreciates.

Now the question is, Is it alright to expect other person to appreciate? If yes, the same expectation also makes, if he/she depreciate or criticise and not just opposite of appreciation, if we don't get appreciation also makes life miserable. How many of us like to listen the honest opinion like looking good or bad. Why we are miserable to accept the true opinion.

During meditation, we expect the mobile to be silent mode. At the same time, we meditate, same tune as music played in back ground. Because we accept the same back ground music, but we do not accept the same tune of mobile while meditating. The opinions also are in the same way, We can accept the appreciation and not the opposite of that. The no appreciation or opposite of the appreciation makes us miserable in our life.

We ask our child to dance in front of some body and we teach them to expect the appreciation. The character of expectation of appreciation is developed in the deep in our mind from childhood.

Now the attitude of asking some bodies appreciation is grown to the extent in our life, is all about the impressing others. We live for others and forgotten ourselves. We are begging the appreciation and acknowledgement always. It sounds so ugly, but it is true in every body's life.

"Stop expecting acknowledgements accept the way it is"

Ramesh Shivanna

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