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Good is recognised out of Bad


We have been always advised to be with right people company to come up in the life. But my experience is different. Many of the best lessons were learnt from the bad people companion.


Failure always teaches how to pass. When we experienced the fail, we understand the value of the pass.


We understood the “Good” only when we experienced the “Bad”.  So what is required is not avoiding the “Bad”, but getting aware of the “Bad” we should build our self to recognize the bad and what are the lessons out of the bad. The lessons learnt out of the “bad” will create “Good” in you.


But we should be careful here.  In the process, people experience you as “Bad”. During the immaturity to recognize the “Bad” or the time taken to recognize the “Bad” will make you “Bad” without your knowledge. That makes your life .This is where is the challenge. 


We need to work on the time taken to recognize the “Bad”. Not avoiding the “Bad or Bad people.


I insist to get aware of what is “bad” instead of insisting on avoiding the bad or Bad people. That builds a strong personality in you. Protecting the “Bad” is temporary solution. Building to aware of the “Bad” and getting recognize the “Bad” is permanent solution. Because “ Many of the best lessons in my life are from the wrong people”


Ramesh Shivanna 

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