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Happiness is a way of life



Everyone wants to be happy, But only few know what happiness is all about. 

We have been taught that happiness is out of materialistic life. I was told if you score high you get a seat in engineering so that you can be happy. During engineering asked to score high, so that you get a good job and you will be happy. Then after getting job do I happy?  Not at all. Then my ambition is to earn more, so that I can stay in good house and also can own a small moped vehicle. Worked hard one year and my salary was increased. I was happy for few days but again incomplete feeling  and started looking for my happiness in buying Yamaha bike and moving to bigger rented house, Is the journey stopped?  no, not at all. The new target was buying a car and then own house and so on. My mind has been programmed to hunt for the happiness and was in the race to find happiness with outer materialistic achievements.

I believed that, achieving a target can bring happiness. It took long time to realize that, I am only postponing the happiness. We are all in an illusion that others, with more materialistic achievements are happier than us. Materialist happiness only gives momentary happiness and also boosts the ego within us. This in turn keeps you incomplete and unsatisfied. Happiness should come from within. Happiness is a way of life. If you are happy for the reason you are in trouble, because the reason can be taken from you. Even thing’s don’t appear to going perfectly well outwardly, it is still possible to experience the sincere happiness. Because ,It is our inner feeling that creates happiness
Ramesh Shivanna

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