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Live and let Live



 Charity begins at home. Is it selfish? The flight safety demonstration says, you should wear the air mask before you help somebody or even children. The clear  message is , Help yourself  before you help others. You must put on your own mask before you can help others.

Typically, the scenario given is of an adult and a child, which I would assume is a parent-child situation in traveling circumstances. This has always seemed mind-boggling to me. It seems selfish and unnatural to put your own mask on first, ignoring the child  for a few minutes while you effectively "save yourself. By not helping yourself first, you both suffer.

Jesus said “Live and let live” it is not reverse. You should live to help other. Oxygen is more required to you before you try for others.

If you are healthy you can make other healthy, If you are wealthy , you can make others wealthy, If  you have studied well you can teach other.

This is not about  selfish.  This is about law of life. Live and let live , never let live and live…

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