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Things will go wrong, no matter What

Things will go wrong, no matter What. That is just the life is . And when they do, We will have some kind of response.Unfortunately our response is usually negative one. When things go wrong, how do you go about making them right? This is very important question we have to keep in mind at that time. 

It would be lot better off if we choose a positive response when things go wrong. We need to stop crying and complaining about our circumstances, We could choose to treat them as a learning experience.  Consider the positive lesson we can learn. Or negative responses trigger negative attitudes, which reinforce more negative responses, and so forth. This down word spiral can be averted by changing our actions, which will then change the attitude, therefore making it easier to take more beneficial action. For instance, someone makes a comment that hurts your feelings; the tendency is to strike back, which could escalate in to hostility. However, you could choose to act as if your feelings were not hurt. It is not easy, but it does work. Because much of what goes wrong involves personal relationships.

I think when things go wrong, we should take initiative to make things right. Never wait for the other person;  make the first move even if it is not your fault.  When some one enters in one way, it is always better you ride carefully . because ultimately question is whose life? 

Look on the bright side, behave as if things are okay, and first patch up the relationships. These three helps to make the things right when they go wrong.

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