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we need trust to operate

Trust means being able to predict what other people will do and what situations will occur.Trust is critical foundation for good relationships. All of us need trust to operate. Families,Friendships organizations and society stand on only TRUST. 

When we trust one another everything works better. But trust can’t be demanded. We must earn it. The attitude, Behavior, discipline and clarity makes it easy for others to trust us. Person looses a trust if the behavior of that person varies. The discipline of a person earns the trust faster.

Father says I have done many assets to son and doesn't clarify his son. Son looses a trust on his father itself. Many people in the organisation keep doing the good things but, they don’t keep transparency and claim I have done so many good things but organisation does not trust us. Or visa verse. I have seen many of us keep complaining, Other person is not trusting. We say my spouse does not trust me. This is demanding a trust from her. Spouse lost a trust looking at your attitude, behaviour, indiscipline and no transparency. Start earning trust. Life will be beautiful.

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