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Consular’s night program was conducted by FKCCI in Lalith Ashok, One of the invitee was Dr.Sudhakar , who was a consulate for the Srilank, and also in the previous month got elected as a young MLA, Govt of Karnataka. He was asked to share and he was unable to speak for a while though his English and his vocabulary was good. He was mentioning  that few months he was in the constituency by giving every day Kannada speeches. It took some time to swap himself to address the gathering in  English. My wife cooks very well but  if I ask her a  few dishes not cooked by her quite some time, that won’t taste, it takes few days to bring the taste. I have seen outstanding cricket player unable to achieve the level of performance they are capable of, for they have stopped practicing. “ Anything if you don’t use it, you lose it .” Unused  machinery gets rusted. Steel wear out whether use it or not. Wear out by use will be shining where as the unused rust won’t. So better...

The stress is all about, The gap between, it should have been done and eventually you do it.   You should have been reached at particular time, but you start from your place late. The moment you get a call from them, you get irritated about him.  You commit a time to complete the assignment, but eventually you don’t complete at that time, and you start frustrating about that work.  You commit to pay the money next day, but eventually you don’t and getting angry about all. You commit the delivery in one week to the customer; eventually you don’t do at that time. Then you frustrate about the business.  Do what you say, say what you can do, without procrastinating. “Collection of above bad incidents, memories only leads to an anger, jealousy, and hatred toward others; Finally it also spoils your happiness”. I n order to lead a peaceful life, one should control his own mind and have an economy of thoughts. We have to order our minds to forget the unnecessary memori...

The Purpose of religion is to eliminate the ignorance through spiritual practices. The religion makes you a devotee seeking the light of wisdom. All religions advocate qualities such as goodness, kindness, tolerance, mercy, integrity and selflessness. They insist on moral and ethical perfection as the fundamental condition for spiritual evolution. Without these qualities we will end up far short of the goal, even after a lifetime of devotion and worship. When these values are practiced they enable us to master our mind, which leads to mastery over ourselves, and the world around us. Although these principles are essentially the same in all religions, differences may appear due to the way in which they were presented to meet the needs of the people of the time. These three moral codes of behavior are: self-control (brahmacharya), non-injury (ahimsa), and truthfulness (satyam). They are the source of all values, and refer to the three layers of our personality: physical, emotional ...

Mind is divided in to two parts Conscious and subconscious mind, Conscious mind has intelligence and subconscious mind is not. Subconscious mind responds to what you store in it. This subconscious mind has gone through an error from ages. Mind is carried by time, and the time has past, present and future. We have been always told about the future not the present. From the childhood we think about, I will be happy after finishing the home work, after the examination. We will be happy after getting job, after getting promotion, after getting increments, after getting order, after getting payment. We will be happy after buying a vehicle, after buying house. I will be happy after reaching parris in the tour plan. But what about now, This is where the error is programmed in the subconscious mind. We are sending message to our subconscious mind saying my happiness is after but now we are unhappy… Unhappy person is trying to achieve a success. This error in the programming m...

“God is experienced in silence” “Silence is experienced only in peace’ “Peace is experienced only when you have   love and happiness around” Love and happiness experienced, only when you are source of love and happiness. The quality of the painting is the painter’s responsibility; The quality of a statue is sculpture’s responsibility. The quality of your life is your responsibility. If you have desire to experience the God, you should be source of love and happiness. With your love and happiness,  with the people around you, you can experience back the love and happiness.  You need to show the love to the people since you need it. It is not question of whose mistake in the relationship, but it is the question of your relationship with others. For the sake of having a peace in your life you have to express love and happiness irrespective others. It is ultimately it is your life. Since you want to experience the peace, silence and God… This gives whole meani...

Human being is rational animal.  He has born to make an inquiries and questions. More questions better knowledge of advancement and science. The whole of material civilization is based on this originally large volume of questions by young man to elders. The proper answers from the elder’s civilization make progress. We all experience as child the question raised are difficult to answer. Once the child traveling with father on the Road looking at the procession asked his father what is that, father said it is marriage procession, immediately child asked his father,  have you married? The Married father could not control his laugh in front of the others. This is how children evolve… Unfortunately we suppress the children’s. We say don’t ask such questions; don’t speak about those thing and so on. As we grow the speed of evolving goes down because of these “don’t” from all around. Student raises his hands to answer the moment the question is asked, if it is wr...

Guru Brmha, Guru Vishnu, Guru Devo Maheshwaraha… Guru is always considered as a God. Since Guru play a role of bringing a light in the life of a person. In all the scriptures the Guru is described as good as God. But Guru never says, “ I am   God”. But disciple (seeker) duty is to offer respect to the Guru just as he offers respect to God.   If all the lights in the room immediately shutoff, we would not be able to tell where we are or where others are sitting. Everything would become confused. Similarly, in materialistic life the darkness.  Therefore it needs light from sun, moon or electric light for illumination. The Guru responsibility is to bring his seekers from darkness to light. In materialistic life darkness means ignorance. A criminal may say, “I did not know the law,” But he will not be excused if he commits a crime. Ignorance has no excuse. Similarly, a child, not knowing that fire will burn, will touch the fire. The fire does not think, “this is a chil...

In Prayer we speak to the God, In Meditation God speaks to us.   God can be experienced only when we have silence within us. The silence can be experienced only when you are in piece. The piece can be part of your life only when you have love and happiness around you. Love and happiness can be experienced around you only when you are source of Love and happiness. But challenge is, can you be source of love and happiness? We all   experienced the kid at home can bring happy and loving each other among all the members in the family.   The moment the kid is not inside the house same people experience the boring environment and hate rate each other. Here the kid is the source of love and happiness. One of my friend keep telling always if his first daughter comes back to home for her holiday from residential school, everybody at home are very happy and loving. She is the source of love and happiness. As we grow up, day by day we become a source of disturb...

We are always inspired by people around us. I am grateful to the people around me. I have been created what I am today, by their inspiration. But we find only few who are inspiring character and role model for many life’s.   I have few role models in my life, which I want personally to meet. One among them was Dr APJ Kalam. Two years ago, he had come to Indian Institute of Science, Bangalore to deliver lecture. Where I thought I can see him closely. But entry was restricted to the IISc. Even though I tried to use the influence it was difficult to get inside. Thought releasing is my wish, fulfilling is God’s responsibility…Power of a dream makes difference. “When the dream is powerful, the entire existence rearranges itself so that the dream can become reality”. I have read, as small boy, looking at the seagull during fishing with his father , he has dream to fly like seagull, and his dream was powerful, DR APJ Kalam could see it reality in his life. May be...